About Lori & Bob Hollander

When a relationship is vulnerable, the experts you choose must hold that responsibility in their hands like the surgeon delicately operating on the heart. The life or death of the relationship may depend upon it. From couples in crisis to those wishing to deepen their connection, we have the unique privilege of not only providing the support they deserve, but of witnessing their growth as a couple – the creation of a one-of-a-kind, extraordinary partnership. Our years together as spouses, parents and business partners, combined with our extensive professional training and experience in the relationship field have uniquely prepared us for this mission of making “Relationships Work.” And we each have our own style.

Renowned Relationship Experts Are Coming to Town

Today Bob and I are off to the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium in Washington, DC. In this four-day conference, therapists take workshops and learn cutting-edge techniques from the best and brightest experts in our field. We’ll be hearing from:

Jack Kornfield, author of The Art of Forgiveness, Loving Kindness and Peace, […]

How Often Do Married Couples Have Sex?

Sex is important in marriage, but just how much sex are we talking about? And how much sex makes people happy?

One of the most frequent questions we get from clients is: “How much sex should we be having?” This is especially a topic of concern when one partner wants […]

What Men Need to Understand About Women and Sex

“She used to love sex. When we were in college we’d have sex three times a week. She truly enjoyed it. She initiated as much as I did. I don’t know what happened, but it’s not the same. Can’t we get back to that? Why did things change?”

This is […]

Why Is Sex So Important to Men?

Love and sex are the two ingredients that sustain a healthy marriage. Yet, as the years pass, we often see the amount and quality of sexual activity decline in relationships.

When couples come for marriage counseling, one of the most common issues presented is a lack of sexual connection or […]