About Lori & Bob Hollander

When a relationship is vulnerable, the experts you choose must hold that responsibility in their hands like the surgeon delicately operating on the heart. The life or death of the relationship may depend upon it. From couples in crisis to those wishing to deepen their connection, we have the unique privilege of not only providing the support they deserve, but of witnessing their growth as a couple – the creation of a one-of-a-kind, extraordinary partnership. Our years together as spouses, parents and business partners, combined with our extensive professional training and experience in the relationship field have uniquely prepared us for this mission of making “Relationships Work.” And we each have our own style.

Why Do Happy People Cheat?

Rebuilding a relationship after trust has been shattered, begins with understanding why the affair happened. Most people would say, “Surely, there was something wrong in the relationship. Something must have been broken.” If only it was that simple.

It’s easy to blame it on the partners in the relationship […]

How Honest Are You with Your Partner?

The road to intimacy is paved with honesty.

Tell the truth. How honest are you with your partner? I mean – really honest. When was the last time you sat down with him or her and took a risk sharing something that was difficult? How often do you express intimate […]

Is the Grass Greener On the Other Side?

How often do you pause to appreciate the relationship you have? Do you regularly express gratitude to your partner for their gift of love and connection?

At the start of relationships, we are grateful for our partners and effortlessly express our feelings of love. Over time we may slide into […]

Is It Really All Your Partner’s Fault?

Blaming your partner for all the problems in the relationship is common. But one person is never fully to blame.