About Lori & Bob Hollander

When a relationship is vulnerable, the experts you choose must hold that responsibility in their hands like the surgeon delicately operating on the heart. The life or death of the relationship may depend upon it. From couples in crisis to those wishing to deepen their connection, we have the unique privilege of not only providing the support they deserve, but of witnessing their growth as a couple – the creation of a one-of-a-kind, extraordinary partnership. Our years together as spouses, parents and business partners, combined with our extensive professional training and experience in the relationship field have uniquely prepared us for this mission of making “Relationships Work.” And we each have our own style.

7 Signs Your Relationship Is Drifting Apart

We’ve got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can’t just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it’s going to get on by itself. You’ve got to really look after it and nurture it. – John Lennon

Julie and Adam […]

Have You Forgotten to Listen to Your Partner?

Listening is one of the most important skills in a relationship. Understanding how to actively listen may mean the difference between a relationship lasting or not. In this day of electronic communication and a preference for texting instead of talking, are we losing our ability to listen?

When partners focus […]

The One Thing Most Couples Forget to Do in Their Relationships

This image hangs in our kitchen above the sink. Bob and I love to dance. We’ve been doing it since we met 30 years ago. It’s one of the most fun activities we do together. (Bob may say he disagrees, but once we get out on that dance floor […]

Pssst…Our Empty Nest Is the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Us

There. I said it out loud. If our kids are reading this (which is highly improbable since they are busy with their own lives) please don’t take this personally.

Bob and I have two amazing children who we love dearly. For the last two and a half decades, we […]