About Lori & Bob Hollander

When a relationship is vulnerable, the experts you choose must hold that responsibility in their hands like the surgeon delicately operating on the heart. The life or death of the relationship may depend upon it. From couples in crisis to those wishing to deepen their connection, we have the unique privilege of not only providing the support they deserve, but of witnessing their growth as a couple – the creation of a one-of-a-kind, extraordinary partnership. Our years together as spouses, parents and business partners, combined with our extensive professional training and experience in the relationship field have uniquely prepared us for this mission of making “Relationships Work.” And we each have our own style.

Does Sex Exist After Kids?

There are many reasons couples come to therapy:

She had an affair.
He doesn’t communicate.
We argue and can’t work it out.
We fight about money.
He doesn’t help around the house.
His work is more important than I am.
She spends too much time with her family.
We never […]

Valentine’s Day After the Affair: Pain or Passion?

For many couples healing from infidelity, Valentine’s Day brings a mix of pain and passion. Therapists help partners sort through these complicated emotions.

3 Steps to Stoke Your Libido and Heat Up Your Sex Life

Just what exactly is libido? It’s your sex drive, your desire for sexual activity, your appetite for sex.

Why is it that, generally speaking, men seem to hang on to their libidos while women’s wax and wane through the years? Here are some of the reasons:

Hormones – Think […]

Lost Your Libido? You can get it back.

Many women we see in practice just “accept” that they’ve lost their libidos. They don’t exactly know where it went, but it’s gone. I hear things like:

“I’m too tired. I wouldn’t care if I ever had sex again.”
“Since the baby was born, I have no interest in sex.”
“I’ve gained […]