Can Couples Start Over After An Affair?

Starting over after an affair isn’t easy, but it is possible. Bob and I have seen many couples do just that. Repairing a break in trust is one of the hardest issues to overcome in a relationship. Yet more and more couples come to us to work on recovering […]

How to Forgive Your Partner After An Affair

Forgiveness after an affair may seem like an oxymoron. How can anyone forgive the greatest act of betrayal in a marriage or committed relationship? Though it may seem impossible, we see it everyday in our practice.

Forgiveness is not an act; it’s a process that happens over months and […]

5 Crucial Messages That Will Rebuild Trust After An Affair

“I am in desperate need of help for my marriage. Last week I discovered that my husband has been having an affair. I’m devastated. We have two young children. I don’t know what to do. Can you help?”

This is typical of the emails that Bob and I often receive. […]

How Do You Recover After a Partner’s Affair?

Discovering that your partner has had an affair is devastating. First comes the avalanche of emotions – shock, anger, denial, grief, hurt, pain and fear. Then comes the avalanche of “now what” questions – “What do I do now? How do I go on? Is my relationship over? What […]