How to Speak Your Partner’s Love Language on Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is around the corner. What is the best way to show your partner that you love them? The answer depends on your partner’s love language; i.e., the way your partner wants to receive love.

The 5 Love Languages explains that we have preferences in the way we desire love. […]

What Is the Best Valentine Gift of All?

It’s that time again – Valentines Day. The one day of the year when it’s vital for most of us to get the gift right. After all, it’s a gift of love that celebrates the deep connection upon which our relationships are built.

We thought it would be helpful to […]

Is Hurting the Partner We Love Inevitable?

Why do people hurt the ones they love? Some partners are self-centered; they focus on their own desires and not on the needs of the relationship. Their ability to compartmentalize allows them to act in destructive ways that end up perpetrating harm upon their partner. Self-interest trumps concern for […]

A Breakthrough Formula for Connection

“What happens when people open their hearts?…They get better.” – Haruki Murakami
Sam, like many men we’ve worked with, wouldn’t open up. Expressing feelings or being vulnerable was not in his repertoire, so he thought. He reluctantly came to see us.

Ellen, his partner, was feeling unloved; she talked about separating. […]