How Men Can Develop More Empathy for Women

“When you start to develop your powers of empathy and imagination, the whole world opens up to you.” Susan Sarandon
I, Bob Hollander, have had the occasion to experience many things in the course of my life; but the one I am about to share proved to be a real […]

5 Steps to Managing Your Biggest Differences

“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then.” 
– Katherine Hepburn
Do you and your partner blame each other for your differences?

In practice we hear:

You leave the house such a mess -vs- you want the house […]

The Key to Lasting Love

Remember the Beatles song, “All You Need is Love”? For a relationship to last a lifetime, nothing could be further from the truth.

Love is defined as an intense feeling of strong affection and attraction; a deep romantic or sexual attachment. It is what initially brings us together. It’s the […]

Do You Know How Your Partner Sees You?

How does your partner see you?

Strong or fragile
Aggressive or passive
Caring or cold
Clueless or smart
Supportive or critical
Emotional or rational
Trustworthy or suspicious

The “filters” through which we see our partners affect how we perceive their actions, expressions and words; and subsequently affect how we respond. The powerful lenses of perception can have […]