5 Crucial Messages That Will Rebuild Trust After An Affair

“I am in desperate need of help for my marriage. Last week I discovered that my husband has been having an affair. I’m devastated. We have two young children. I don’t know what to do. Can you help?”

This is typical of the emails that Bob and I often receive. […]

How Do You Recover After a Partner’s Affair?

Discovering that your partner has had an affair is devastating. First comes the avalanche of emotions – shock, anger, denial, grief, hurt, pain and fear. Then comes the avalanche of “now what” questions – “What do I do now? How do I go on? Is my relationship over? What […]

Surviving an Affair: How One Couple Overcame Infidelity

When your partner has an affair, it can feel like your whole world is crashing down on you. But not only can your relationship heal, it can emerge stronger.

Despite what many people think, couples can and do overcome the damage to their relationship as a result of an affair.

It’s […]

The 5 Reasons Why Brad and Angelina Didn’t Make It

It’s been a rough week: Brad and Angelina split up. Being a relationship therapist, I can’t say I was surprised by their separation.

I wondered why so many people were “devastated.” Is it because they looked like the perfect couple? Because we have no great role models to emulate? […]