In this week's post, we highlight one of the biggest relationship experts in our field: Dr. Tammy Nelson, an internationally-known expert and best-selling author on the subjects of relationships, sex and monogamy.

One of the toughest things to do in a relationship is acknowledge when it's not going well and seek help. But what do you do if you want to go to couples counseling and your partner doesn't? We have the answers.

Remember, love is a verb. Here are 9 ideas for what you might DO for your partner this Valentine's Day to get started on creating the romance.