We take on your conflict and show you how to communicate non-defensively. Any subject can be discussed in a productive way, if you know how to talk about it. Many of us never learned that skill. Couples end up having the same arguments over and over, getting stuck in the battle of right and wrong. The result - no one feels heard.

We coach couples to genuinely listen, to speak up clearly, to use their voices productively, to work as a team, and to balance power and influence. The result is more open and authentic connection and greater intimacy. We show you the communication skills we learned and have been using for 30 years.

People who know us will tell you, we are opposite in many ways. We share with you how we work to accept and manage our differences, instead of allowing them to create conflict and distance. We show you how to manage yours.

We use examples from our own relationship as spouses, parents and business partners when they relate to your experience. We provide a safe space for couples to be authentic and vulnerable since that is where true connection lies.