Can Couples Start Over After An Affair?

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Starting over after an affair isn’t easy, but it is possible. Bob and I have seen many couples do just that. Repairing a break in trust is one of the hardest issues to overcome in a relationship. Yet more and more couples come to us to work on recovering after an affair.It’s easy to say, “If that happened to me, I would leave my partner.” In reality, making that decision is much more difficult. Often there is a family at stake.What does it take to rebuild trust? Patience, perseverance, vulnerability, therapy, time and a lot of emotional work.One of the resources we recommend to clients is Beyond Affairs Network. It’s an organization founded by Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth.Peggy mentored Anne Bercht when Anne discovered her husband’s (Brian’s) affair. When Peggy passed away, Anne and Brian Bercht took over running and growing the Beyond Affairs organization. They turned their pain around to become affair recovery coaches, speakers, and authors. Anne’s book, My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me, is a fascinating read.This week, we’d like to share Anne’s article, Creating A Happy Life After An Affair, where she describes her and Brian’s story. It’s quite interesting. For those of you struggling with this issue, it will give you hope.If you are in a relationship and wanting a fresh start, or are looking for a fresh start in a new relationship, Bob and I can help. Call us at 410-363-2825 or email info@relationshipswork.com.For free couples' advice, Like our Facebook page.Image Copyright Alexas_Fotos