Chronic Arguments: How to stop having the same fight, over and over again

People often say to us, "Why do my partner and I get stuck in conflict? We have chronic arguments about the same things and they never get solved."Most couples do have recurring disputes and, if they are not careful, they may end up on a merry-go-round of chronic conflict. The biggest problem is that no one is being heard and both partners feel invalidated.Behind every argument is a feeling, and a unique interpretation of your partner’s actions, behaviors or point of view. The issues your partner triggers in you provide a window into your soul.

What's under chronic conflict

Watch this video in which Bob and I talk about finding what's under chronic conflict and how to have a different conversation with your partner.We'd love to hear your thoughts about conflict on our Facebook page

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