The #1 Sign Your Partner is Cheating

“One of the greatest threats to marriage today is the child-centered family.” -Shirley Glass

Has your relationship been going through a rough patch? Have you allowed it to start slipping away? Does it seem like your partner is disconnected? If so, beware.The #1 sign of infidelity is “emotional distance” between partners. It’s difficult, if not impossible, for a person to be intimately connected with his partner and be betraying her at the very same time. When a person is cheating, he may move even further away, and avoid spending time together, communicating or even making eye contact. He may create arguments to keep his partner at arm’s length.Over the lifetime of a relationship there will be periods where partners will be vulnerable to straying, not because he sets out with the intention of cheating. Most affairs are not premeditated. When there is a lack of connectivity at home and an opportunity presents itself, a partner can be susceptible to the adrenaline rush of an affair.Other signs that a partner is having an affair include that the unfaithful partner becomes irritable, angry or defensive; starts paying more attention to his appearance, removes his wedding ring, avoids sex.If you become concerned that your partner is having an affair, find the right time to talk with him and discuss your concerns. If you can’t do that, talk to a therapist about how to approach your partner.It is vital to stay consciously connected with your partner throughout the years, head, heart and hormones. This is your best protection against betrayal.Create a more intimate relationship using our most popular audio program below:The 7 Secrets of Emotional & Erotic IntimacyWe would love to hear your thoughts about how to spot an affair on our Facebook page.To Your Relationship,Lori and Bob Hollander***Sign up for our monthly eNewsletter, Radical Relationships, to receive more tips and articles about relationships.